“Jay’s story opened my eyes and heart to understand gender beyond the ways that I had been conditioned and trained to see gender – as binary male or female. As a result, I became profoundly aware of the water we swim in when it comes to gender. I learned so much about how to be more inclusive and to see the humanity of people (as oppression like genderism dehumanizes and objectifies people) who identify as gender non-binary, non-conforming or transgender. Jay’s tips on what I could explore and continue to be curious about had me realize how connected these narratives are to sexism and patriarchy and how I actually, within a split second, categorize the person in front of me in either of the 2 boxes and once I have them in the ‘right’ box, I then (as a woman) know how to interact with them. That was mind-blowing for me. I would highly recommend Jay if you are looking to gain greater consciousness around gender and so much more.”

“Thank you for an informative, heart-centered and open presentation at the ACTO Conference. Your message was well-received and deeply appreciated.”